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A Beauty Editor's Son Breaks Ranks: What He Said About My Friend Made Me Finally Sort Out My Own Skin

He was talking about my friend. She's four years younger than me and spends four thousand pounds a year on her face. That's the part I couldn't put down.

Emma Hartley
Beauty Director, 16 years · London

I don't want to sound vain, or anything like that. But it looks like I aged overnight. I'm so self-conscious now that I don't want to go anywhere. I've always taken care of my skin — creams, serums, the whole lot, more than anyone I know. But the lines just seemed to come on. I know this probably sounds like I care far too much about how I look. I feel ashamed of myself.

That's where I was in March. Here's how I got there — and what pulled me out of it.

What My Son Said About My Friend's Face

Rachel has been my friend since we shared a flat in Kentish Town in our twenties. She came over on a Friday evening in March 2024 — a bottle of red, the two of us at the kitchen table, the way we've done for the best part of twenty years.

Somewhere around nine, my son Josh came in from football. He was fourteen. He did what fourteen-year-olds do: opened the fridge, said about four words to Rachel, took a packet of ham upstairs.

Rachel left around half ten. I heard the front door go, and I was standing at the dishwasher when Josh came back down for cereal — because they eat at half ten at night — and leaned against the counter beside me and said, in the flat, unbothered voice of a boy who has never once considered that a room has an outside:

"Well, she looks old, doesn't she. I reckon that's why she's having the trouble with her husband."

And then, before I could get a word out:

"I wasn't eavesdropping, by the way. It was impossible not to hear her going on."

I had a proper go at him. Told him you don't say things like that about people, ever, and especially not about someone who's been coming into this house since before he was born. He shrugged and said what? and went up the stairs, and that was the end of it for him.

It was not the end of it for me.

Here is the part that makes the rest of this make sense, and it isn't the four years. Rachel works at this.

I know exactly what she does, because we've been friends for twenty years and there is nothing we don't tell each other. Botox three times a year. Profhilo. A course of laser she put on the credit card. Monthly facials with a woman she'd trust ahead of her own GP. She reapplies factor 50 in a beer garden. We totted it up over wine one night, laughing: north of four thousand pounds a year, on her face.

And a fourteen-year-old boy took one look at her and reached for old as the obvious word. Not as an insult. As a description. The way you'd say a car was blue.

I stood at that dishwasher and did the arithmetic, and it was the worst arithmetic of my life. If that is what four thousand a year buys — if that is the visible return on doing every single thing right — then what has mine bought?

And underneath it, the question I could not get out of my head:

If that is what he said about Rachel out loud, what has he never said about me?

I have spent sixteen years as a beauty editor. Six of them as beauty director at a national magazine. There is a drawer in my bathroom I don't open when friends come over — roughly forty-five products, most of them sent to me free, in beautiful boxes, with handwritten cards saying some version of we think you'll love this.

That night I went into that bathroom, put the main light on, and did something I had not done properly in about two years.

I stood there and I actually looked.

Seven Things I Wrote Down About My Own Face. Check Them Against Yours.

I wrote them on the back of a delivery note at half eleven at night, because I am a journalist and that is what I do when I don't know what else to do with something. Every woman I have spoken to since has recognised at least four of them.

• A grey cast. Not tanned, not pale — grey. The light seems to stop at your face instead of coming off it. In photographs you look like you've been shot through a dirty window.
• Foundation catching. The same foundation you've worn for years, settling into the two lines either side of your mouth by about eleven in the morning. It never used to find them.
• Crepe under the eyes. Fine, dry, crosshatched texture that concealer sits on top of rather than sinks into. Putting it on makes it worse.
• Slackness along the jaw. Nothing dramatic. Just a softness where there used to be a line. You notice it most on video calls, in the little box in the corner of the screen.
• Dark patches you have been telling yourself for a year are freckles.
• Tightness by four o'clock. Whatever you put on at seven in the morning is gone by lunchtime, no matter what it cost.
• And the tiredness. The thing that has nothing to do with sleep. Eight hours and you look exactly the same as you do on four.

Seven things, written down by a woman who reviews skincare for a living.

I Did Everything I Tell You to Do. Six Months. Nothing Changed.

I want to be precise about this next part, because it is the whole point of what follows.

Twelve weeks on a prescription-strength retinoid — properly, nightly, through the peeling, filming a video review in April with concealer over the flaking on my chin. Vitamin C every morning. Acids twice a week. A £340 regenerating cream I had given an award to the previous autumn, used to the last scrape of the jar.

I paid £250 to be told my skin was in good condition for my age, which is a sentence I have not been able to shake since. I had five facials. I priced laser and walked out of the consultation — not over the money, but because I could not stand the woman with the iPad photographing my face at four angles under a ring light while she talked about what we could address.

I asked my GP about the menopause. I asked about my thyroid. Bloods came back fine.

Six months. Close to two thousand pounds of my own money, on top of a drawer full of free product. And I could not tell you one single thing that had changed.

That is the part nobody says out loud. Not that it worked a bit. That it did nothing — that I ran the maximum available version of the exact routine I have spent sixteen years recommending to hundreds of thousands of British women, and at the end of it my face looked precisely as it had at the start, only six months older.

I had started to accept that this was simply what forty-three was.

And then, in January, I remembered a conversation I had been carrying around for three years and had never done anything about.

The Phone Call I Should Have Made Three Years Earlier

In 2021 I was flown to a "formulation experience" at a luxury laboratory outside Paris. Twenty journalists. White coats, microscopes arranged for photographs, a hero serum that would launch that autumn at £265.

At the reception afterwards I ended up talking to one of the chemists while the PR team were busy with the fashion editors. She was Bulgarian — trained in cosmetic formulation in Sofia, thirty-four years in the industry, senior enough by then to have signed things off.

I asked her the question I had been carrying for years: what percentage of the hero active is actually in the finished product?

She looked over her shoulder. Then she said a number so low that I laughed, because I assumed she was joking.

"Zero point three percent. Sometimes half a percent if the active is cheap enough. The figure is chosen so we can put the ingredient on the label. It is not chosen so the ingredient will do anything. They are two completely different numbers, and everybody in this room knows it."

I did nothing with that for three years. I want to be honest about why: it was not damaging to the brand. It was damaging to me, and to every recommendation I had ever made.

I still had her number. She had retired by then and was living in the south of France. I told her what six months of my own advice had done to my own face, and asked her the question I should have asked in 2021: if the dose is wrong, what is the right one? And what would you put on your own face — yours, at sixty, not a test panel's?

She answered the first part briskly. For most of the actives worth having, nothing measurable happens below roughly one to two percent. Most premium formulation sits at a fifth to a half of one percent. Four to ten times below the line. The rest of the money is in the box, the campaign, and the counter.

Then she went quiet, and said something I did not expect.

"There is one ingredient I will not discuss with you over a telephone. The plant is becoming fashionable in Britain now — which means the fraud has already started. Brands will put a trace of it on the label, women will smell something lovely and see nothing change, and they will conclude the ingredient was hype. The ingredient never failed. It was never in the bottle at a dose that could work. I will not tell you the name, because the word means the wrong thing in Britain. Come and see the harvest. It lasts three weeks a year. After that, you may write whatever you like."

I was forty-four years old, and a woman I trusted more than any laboratory I had ever been flown to had just refused to name a plant over the phone.

Five weeks later I was standing in a valley most people cannot place on a map, at 4:40 in the morning, waiting for a crop she would not name.

The Valley, and the Plant She Wouldn't Name

Central Bulgaria. A long green corridor between two mountain ranges that Europeans treat with the seriousness other countries reserve for wine regions.

The crop was roses. And before you picture the ones on your fence — stop, because that is exactly the confusion she was protecting me from.

This was Rosa damascena: the Damask rose, a small, dense, almost humble-looking bloom farmed for one thing only. Oil. Garden roses are bred for the vase — big petals, long stems, a polite scent that is gone by lunch. Damascena is bred for chemistry. What comes out of its petals after distillation is rose otto — an essential oil so concentrated, complex and scarce that perfume houses have used Bulgarian otto as their reference standard for over a century, and lock in their allocations a year in advance.

This valley — the Rose Valley — is to rose oil what Champagne is to sparkling wine. Warm days, cool nights, particular soil, one short violent bloom. Turkey grows damascena. Morocco grows it. Serious formulators still measure everything against this valley.

"Say 'rose oil' in Britain and people hear spa music," the chemist had told me. "Stand in the harvest and you will understand it is closer to a precious metal."

I had spent sixteen years at the glossy end of this exact pipeline, writing admiringly about serums containing a trace of what was growing in front of me. I had simply never stood at the other end of it before.

Why It Stays Rare — the Numbers That Ended My Scepticism

• Picking happens before sunrise, by hand. Once the sun hits, the same flower yields less oil. The pickers said this flatly, like weather.
• It takes roughly 3,500 kilograms of petals — about three and a half tonnes of flowers — to produce one kilogram of true rose otto.
• The entire harvest window is about three weeks. Miss it, and you wait a year.
• Which is why real otto trades at prices closer to precious metals than to moisturiser base — and why almost no mass-market brand uses a working dose.

Standing in that steam, sixteen years of launches suddenly looked absurd. The £70 rose-infused creams. The pink water in pretty bottles. Almost none of it could possibly contain meaningful amounts of this oil at those yields and prices.

The decorative dose is not a shortcut. It is the entire business model.

What a Real Dose Actually Does for Skin Over 45

This is what her thirty-four years come down to. When the oil is real — full otto, working dose — women over forty-five report the same cluster of changes, in the same order.

The tightness goes first. Mature skin loses the lipids that hold moisture in. True damascena oil is one of the richest, most skin-compatible lipid phases in botany. The papery, thirsty, four-o'clock feeling eases within days, and foundation stops sinking into dry creases.

Then the tone calms. The blotchy, grey, reactive look that reads as tired softens as the surface is sealed and soothed. Not bleached — quieter.

Then the light changes. Damascena otto carries one of the densest natural antioxidant loads ever measured in a botanical oil. Daily oxidation is a large part of why older skin looks flat. At a real dose, your face simply holds light better — in mirrors, and in the photographs you usually delete.

And there is one group it rescues outright: retinol quitters. A rich, calming oil phase is precisely what lets an irritation-prone face stay on an active long enough to see results, instead of the flake-quit-restart cycle I knew by heart.

But here the chemist was emphatic: the oil alone is only half a mechanism. Comfort, tone, radiance — yes. Structure — firmness, wrinkle depth — needs a second engine.

In her world that engine is a plant-derived retinol alternative called bakuchiol, at a genuine 2% dose — not the label-decoration half percent most brands sneak in. In published head-to-head research, bakuchiol already matched retinol on wrinkles and pigmentation at the lower 0.5% level, without the irritation, the peeling or the sun sensitivity. Two percent is four times that concentration — where the firmness conversation for skin over forty-five actually lives.

One oil that almost nobody doses honestly, plus one active that almost nobody doses honestly. Find both in one bottle, she said, and you have the rarest thing in anti-ageing: a formula with no fake half.

The Name That Kept Coming Up

Back home in London, I did what sixteen years had trained me to do. I went looking for where women actually talk: French Facebook groups for women over forty, comment threads, forum posts machine-translated at midnight — my French runs to menus and press trips.

One product kept surfacing. Small opaque white bottle. Less tightness by day three. Foundation sitting properly. Retinol results without the retinol punishment. Batches that sell out when they land. The identical pattern with no ad campaign attached — no British distributor, no influencer programme, no billboards — which is why British women had never seen it, and why Frenchwomen had it to themselves for years.

I sent the chemist my notes and asked if she knew what I was looking at.

She did not perform surprise.

"Yes. That one. I know the family — Bulgarian, long relationships with the valley's organic growers. They put a real dose of the otto and a real dose of bakuchiol in the same formula, and price it like they want women to actually finish the bottle. That is why Frenchwomen pass it around like a pharmacy secret. It is also why it is constantly out of stock."

She does not sell it. She takes no commission. In thirty-four years she has recommended perhaps a handful of products — usually while telling you to stop buying the other twenty. That independence is the whole point of her judgement.

The brand is Gentle & Rose. The bottle is the Rose Youth Elixir — organic Bulgarian rose otto from the valley I had stood in, 2% bakuchiol, hyaluronic acid, 99.8% natural, over 100,000 customers, made in small batches that keep selling out even as the family ramps production.

That was the whole endorsement. She moved on to scolding me about sunscreen.

How a Real Dose Ends Up at €39

If you have been paying attention, this is the obvious objection — it was mine. If rose otto trades like a precious metal, how is a working bottle thirty-nine euros? About thirty-four pounds.

I asked. The answer is not a coupon. It is a supply chain most beauty brands simply refuse to run.

Gentle & Rose books organic damascena quantities years ahead with the same valley growers — multi-year contracts, not a scramble on the open market when a trend hits. Decades of direct relationships with those farms, so there is no broker layer stacking margin between the still and the bottle. They make the Elixir themselves in small European batches — their own production, not a white-label lab in a third country. And they sell direct from their European store: no British distributor cut, no department-store counter taking its third, no prestige tax for marble and a free gift with purchase.

A 30ml bottle, used two drops at a time, needs grams of otto, not kilograms. The arithmetic that makes otto precious is real — and it still fits inside a finished elixir when you cut out every middleman who never touched a petal.

Roughly a third of a luxury serum's price is the shelf it sits on. Remove the shelf, the campaign and the celebrity, and thirty-nine euros stops being suspicious. It starts being the actual price of a formula.

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The Bottle Arrives in London

I ordered from their European store on a Tuesday night in June 2025. Thirty-nine euros — my card statement did the conversion automatically. No customs charges, no handling fees, nothing to pay at the door. It felt the same as ordering from a British site, just at a much lower price for what you actually get. The box was at my door six working days later. No broken dropper.

For the record, and because it matters after sixteen years of free product arriving in beautiful boxes with handwritten notes: I bought it. It was the first skincare product I had ever paid for in my life. I have paid for every bottle since.

What It Was Actually Like on My Face

I tested it the way I had spent sixteen years wishing brands would let me: cleanse, two drops morning and night, sunscreen in the morning, nothing else new for twelve weeks, photographs every week in the same bathroom light. Retinol shelved. Every other bottle in the drawer.

The texture is the first shock. It is not an oil slick. It is a light, fast-sinking elixir — gone into the skin in under a minute, no film, no shine you have to blot. And the scent is the tell: a true, soft, alive rose — the smell of that valley at five in the morning, not a rose-candle blast. You cannot fake that scent with a decorative dose. It is the one quality check you can run with your own nose, and I will come back to it.

The second shock comes in about a minute. A gentle, unmistakable firming sensation — not a sting, not a mask-like pull. More as though the skin has been picked up and quietly held. The first morning I used it I kept touching my cheek at breakfast, at forty-four years of age, like a woman at a counter falling for exactly the kind of sensation I had spent a career warning readers about. Except this time I knew what was producing it, because I had read the label the way I read labels.

By day three, the four-o'clock tightness was simply gone. By the end of week one my foundation sat on my face instead of collecting in it, and the grey, tired cast under my kitchen lights had lifted into something I can only call calm.

That instant-comfort layer matters more than it gets credit for, because it is the reason you actually stay consistent long enough for the deeper work to happen.

Then the Science Caught Up With the Feeling

Here is the mechanism in plain English, now that you have heard how it feels.

From the early forties onward, four things go wrong at once. Collagen production drops sharply — which is the softer jaw and the deeper lines. The moisture barrier thins, which is the tightness, the dullness, the clinging makeup. Tone scatters into spots and blotch. And skin stops tolerating irritation, which is goodbye retinol.

Four deficits. One face. And the industry sells you a separate bottle for each — or worse, one bottle that only pretends.

The Rose Youth Elixir is one short formula aimed at all four:

Three quieter players finish the label, and after sixteen years of reading ingredient lists I want you to know they are all above the preservative line.

Low-molecular hyaluronic acid — the water phase that plumps from within, so the oil and the bakuchiol have something to seal and renew. Lactic acid — gently loosening the dead surface cells that accumulate when renewal slows, working the same layer as the bakuchiol from the other side, and carrying pigmented cells away with it. And sorghum stalk juice — which is what you can feel tightening, very slightly, in that first minute.

Bakuchiol is why dermatologists have spent years calling this class of plant actives retinol without the tax. In published head-to-head work it matched retinol on wrinkles and pigmentation at 0.5%, with a fraction of the irritation. Gentle & Rose runs 2% — four times that published bar — because that is where the firmness data for mature skin is aiming.

In their own 12-week evaluation on women over forty-five — the faces this bottle is for, not twenty-five-year-old panellists — they reported roughly a 22% reduction in skin roughness and a 21% reduction in the appearance of wrinkles, alongside gains in firmness and tone.

I would draw your attention to the first figure rather than the second, and I say that as somebody who has spent sixteen years watching brands lead with the wrong number. Wrinkle depth is what sells. Roughness is what actually changes how a face looks in a room — a rough surface scatters light and a smooth one returns it. A company that puts its roughness number ahead of its wrinkle number is a company that has been talking to dermatologists, not marketers.

On my own face, weeks three to six were texture and tone. Weeks six to twelve were the jawline and the side-by-side photographs.

Week Twelve, September 2025

At twelve weeks: a jaw that photographed the way it had five or six years earlier, lines beside my mouth that held no foundation, tone even enough that I skipped colour-corrector, and a brightness that was not highlighter.

Rachel came for lunch that September. She looked at me across the table before she had her coat off and said, "All right. What are you on?"

I told her. She has been buying it since, and she has quietly stopped one of the four-thousand-a-year line items.

Josh is sixteen now and has said nothing, which from a sixteen-year-old is the highest available grade.

For the record, and because I have spent this entire article complaining about people who do not do this: I was forty-four then and I looked forty-four. I am forty-five now and I look forty-five. My deepest lines are where they were. It did not make me thirty.

What it made me was firmer, calmer, brighter and easier to photograph — and it has kept me there for fifteen months and a number of bottles I stopped counting somewhere past a dozen. That is the correct promise, honestly kept, and it is the first one I have put my name to.

Sixteen Years, and What I Was Actually Doing

I owe you the full version of this, and it belongs here rather than at the top, because it means more now that you know how it ended.

Sixteen years. Six of them as beauty director. Somewhere around two thousand product reviews. Several hundred launches — I was flown to laboratories in France, Switzerland, Japan and Korea and shown, on each occasion, a very expensive room containing very serious people in white coats.

I learned to read an ingredient list properly, which is a narrower skill than it sounds. The order is the whole story: everything is listed by descending quantity, and anything appearing after the preservative is present in an amount you would need a laboratory to detect. Once you know that, you can read the back of a box in about four seconds and know whether the front of it is true.

I learned to read the clinical trials rather than the press releases about the trials, which is a different skill and a considerably lonelier one.

And I learned which contract manufacturers make which brands, which is the one that changed how I saw the whole business. There are serums sitting on the same counter, at three different prices, in three different bottles, that come out of the same building.

I never bought a product. Not one, until June 2025. They arrived free, in advance of launch, in beautiful boxes, with handwritten notes.

Nobody ever bought me. That is the point. Nobody had to. It is extraordinarily difficult to take apart a system that is being consistently kind to you — and I had a number in an address book for three years that would have started taking it apart, and I did not ring it.

I gave an award to a serum I now know was dosed at a tenth of the threshold. It is still in that drawer.

I Wasn't the Only One Keeping Photos

While I was still testing, I posted in two of the British 45+ skincare groups where the Elixir had started crossing the Channel, and asked for real experiences — not filtered reviews, the kind of messy phone photos and blunt replies women actually send each other.

Gentle & Rose's public number is over 100,000 customers. The quieter number is the one that matters: how many of those women are on a second or third bottle. In the threads, repurchase shows up the way Frenchwomen talk about a pharmacy secret — ordered again before it sold out — not a one-and-done coupon buy.

A sample of what came back:

Margaret T., 58 — Stockport: "Three retinols made my face peel like a sunburn. This didn't sting once, and at week eight my daughter asked what I'd had done. Nothing, honey. Two drops a day."

Diane R., 61 — Bristol: "I've spent £250 on serums that did less than this £34 bottle. The dark spot on my left cheek — the one I've had for years — is honestly half as visible. I ordered two more before they sold out again."

Susan K., 52 — Norwich: "The smell alone told me this was different. Real rose, like a garden at dawn, gone in a minute. My foundation stopped creasing by the second week. I've repurchased twice."

Patricia M., 64 — Eastbourne: "At my age I don't expect miracles, I expect honesty. Twelve weeks in, my neck and jaw look firmer in photos and my skin isn't tight by evening for the first time in years. It took six days to arrive. Worth every one."

Editor's note: names and identifying details of readers quoted are used with permission; experiences are individual and results vary.

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Why You May Have to Wait — and Why I'd Rather You Didn't

Remember the arithmetic: three and a half tonnes of hand-picked petals per kilogram of oil, from a three-week harvest window, once a year.

Gentle & Rose makes the Elixir in small batches against that fixed supply — the same advance-booked organic harvest and in-house production that keep a real dose at thirty-nine euros instead of a prestige markup. They are ramping, year by year. And demand from France, and now Britain, still arrives faster than a still can run. Batches sell out. Restocks take weeks, not days, because you cannot rush a harvest you already contracted for last winter.

So the real choice is not this serum versus another serum. It is this: keep cycling through decorative-dose bottles that were never going to work — the ones I spent sixteen years recommending — or try the one formula where both halves are real, while the current batch is actually in stock.

What I Would Tell a Friend My Age — Including the Honest Limits

• Two drops, morning and night, on clean skin. More is not more. The bottle lasts a couple of months this way — under sixty pence a day, which is less than I have watched women spend on products doing nothing at all.
• Wear sunscreen in the morning. Antioxidants are not SPF, and nothing here changes that. The chemist scolded me about this and she was right.
• Judge the comfort in the first week — judge the mirror at twelve. The tightness relief and the calm tone come fast. The jaw and the wrinkle changes are an eight-to-twelve-week story. That is how real actives work, and it is the week almost everybody nearly gives up.
• If retinol has wrecked you before, this is your lane back — the results conversation without the peeling penance.
• If you fear oils will break you out or feel heavy: this is a light, fast-sinking elixir, not a salad dressing. Two drops. If your skin is oily-combination, start at night only for a week and see.
• If you stack other products: keep the first two weeks simple — cleanse, Elixir, SPF by day — so you can actually feel this formula. Then reintroduce what you still need. Most of what I reintroduced, I later threw away.
• If you are fragrance-sensitive: real damascena has a true rose scent that fades fast. It is not a rose-candle blast. If any botanical scent bothers you, patch-test the inner arm first.
• Know what it is not. It is not an injectable. It will not erase every line or undo thirty years of unprotected sun, and anyone who tells you a bottle will is running the playbook I used to write for. It made a forty-four-year-old face firmer, calmer, brighter and easier to photograph, and it has kept it that way. I consider that the correct promise, honestly kept.

Sixty Days, Which Is Longer Than It Needs to Be

There is a sixty-day money-back guarantee, counted from the day the bottle arrives, and I want to do the arithmetic with you rather than simply wave at it.

Sixty days is eight and a half weeks. The point at which the structural change begins to show is week eight. One bottle, used properly, carries you there.

That is not a generous returns policy. That is a company saying: take it the whole way to the thing we told you about, and if it has not happened, we will pay for the experiment ourselves.

I have sat in several hundred launches and never once seen a large brand offer that — because you cannot bring a half-used serum back to a beauty counter in week eight and say it did not work. You are expected to conclude that you used it wrongly, or too late, or that you are simply the age you are. And then to buy something else.

So the downside is straightforward. You are out nothing. The only thing you can lose is another eight weeks of the arrangement you already have.

What He Actually Said

I have spent sixteen years telling women what to buy, and I was wrong more often than I was right — not by lying, but by leaving out the question I had been carrying since that reception in Paris.

My son was not being cruel in our kitchen. He was being fourteen, and accurate, about a woman who had done everything right and spent four thousand pounds a year doing it. That is what I could not put down. Not that Rachel looked older than she is. That doing everything right had not worked — and that I was the person who had spent a career telling her what right was.

One more thing, before the link — the same thing I would say across a kitchen table. From the mid-forties, skin loses roughly another one to two percent of its collagen every year you wait. The photograph you do not like this year is, left alone, the best photograph of the next ten.

Waiting is not neutral. It is a decision with a price — paid in the same slow arithmetic as the petals, just in the opposite direction.

P.S. — If you only remember one thing from four thousand words and sixteen years: your nose can run the same quality check I did. Real otto smells like that valley at five in the morning and is gone in a minute. If a "rose" product smells like a candle, you already know what is — and is not — in the bottle. I learned to read labels in four seconds. You can do this one in two.

Individual results vary. Wear SPF daily.